2 Daily Decisions that Can Change the Past

2 Daily Decisions that Can Change the Past

by Wayne Stiles



Think about the worst mistake you’ve made.

If you’re like me, it probably ranks as the worst because of the fallout it caused. After all, some wrong things we did seem to have had little effect. But the ones that backfired on us we view as the big ones.

shipwreck 2 Daily Decisions that Can Change the Past

Photo: by Dammnap, via Wikimedia Commons

The trouble is, we never know which compromises will end up being the big ones.

Reuben, the oldest son of Jacob, blew it big-time. From his example, we can learn to make two daily decisions that can change the past.

More specifically, we can change the past that will be.


Rueben’s Shipwreck

As Jacob’s firstborn son, Reuben had the privilege of preeminence among his brothers. That meant after Jacob died, Reuben would become the leader.

But Reuben tried to seize the right of the firstborn before it was time by having relations with his father’s wife (Genesis 35:22). Sleeping with the wife of the leader meant he was assuming that role for himself.

But Reuben’s presumption backfired on him. On his deathbed, Jacob uttered these words:

“Reuben, you are my first-born; my might and the beginning of my strength, preeminent in dignity and preeminent in power. Uncontrolled as water, you shall not have preeminence, because you went up to your father’s bed.” (Genesis 49:3-4)

In taking too soon what would be his, Rueben lost it all. He couldn’t change the past.

Hill country east of Bethle 2 Daily Decisions that Can Change the Past

Photo: Hill Country east of Bethlehem, by Migdal Eder, perhaps where Reuben made his mistake. Courtesy of BiblePlaces.com

Privileges, Gifts, Strengths, and Daily Decisions

It’s tempting to mistake privilege for a guarantee of success. Giftedness, too, can become a handicap if we mix with it presumption. Consider:

  • A gifted executive with an arrogance that keeps him unemployed.
  • A beautiful woman with an attitude that makes her ugly.
  • A young person brought up in a Christian home who abandons morality for the sake of curiosity.

In each case, their privilege, gift, or strength, has become their weakness because they neglected obedience in daily decisions.

The tragedy of Reuben’s life is what could have been. Reuben never would have done what he did if he knew the far-reaching the consequences.

Reuben shows us, from this one act of insubordination, that we can disqualify ourselves from the benefits our privileges were intended to bring.

But we also see by his example how to succeed in daily decisions.

Change the Past that Will Be

Even though we can’t change the past, we need to realize that one day, even today will become the past.

In that sense, we can change the past that will be—by making two daily decisions:

  1. Refuse to take the easy route of compromise and impatient ambition. Instead, dig in, stay faithful where God has put you, and unite your privileges with an unwavering obedience to Christ. In God’s time, you will enjoy the benefits those privileges were intended to bring (Galatians 6:9).
  2. Choose to do what’s right every time, even in the little things. We can have no idea how the little compromises we make today will affect the rest of our lives (Proverbs 6:10-11). Let your own past be your greatest teacher. Little decisions—both good and bad—add up to big consequences (Luke 19:17). That’s good news.

We can’t change the past, that’s certain. But in our daily decisions we can change the past that will be.

Question: What helps you devote your privileges, gifts, or strengths to God’s service? Please leave a comment

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2 Responses to 2 Daily Decisions that Can Change the Past

  1. ptl2010 says:

    It is His love and mercies anew every morning, and joy and peace that keeps me devoted to Him. No matter what the circumstance, it is great to know according to His Word that He has a plan for my life and that it is His best for me. It is His Holy Spirit that gives me the strength to persevere and with His strength and empowerment comes joy for the joy of the Lord is my strength. The fleeting attractions of this world cannot compare with the peace that I have in serving the Lord and doing His will. Praise the Lord for saving my soul.

  2. Good advice on how to change the past that will be.

    >> “What helps you devote your privileges, gifts, or strengths to God’s service?”
    Of my own self, I would go my own way, but God chose me to Himself and continues to work in me, moment by moment, directing my ways, challenging me when I tend to stray, correcting me and bringing me back into line. When He calls me to a task, He enables me for that task. It is ALL His work! . . . and His blessings are so great that I have NO reason not to follow Him and obey Him.

    What an amazing God!

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