Blame Shifting our Blunders

Blame Shifting our Blunders

by Wayne Stiles

Finger pointing is hard-wired into our hearts.In fact, it started early in human history. Like, really early.(Painting by Domenichino. Public domain)In the Garden of Eden, God confronted Adam and Eve after they sinned, and their reaction set the course for an entire race of blame-shifters.

We’re still shifting the blame (and getting blamed).

The solution is the same today as it was then.

It Takes Three to Play the Blame Game

After the Lord confronted Adam, he quickly pointed elsewhere:

The woman whom You gave to be with me, she gave me from the tree, and I ate. (Genesis 3:12)

After the Lord confronted Eve, she quickly pointed elsewhere:

The serpent deceived me, and I ate. (Genesis 3:13)

Three players (not counting the serpent). Two losers.

We Blame Ourselves Last

Adam shifted the blame to Eve (and to God). Eve shifted the blame to the serpent.

It’s always easier to finger point when we make the choice to sin.

  • We blame another person (our spouse is our favorite target).
  • We blame God for giving us the circumstances in which we chose to sin.
  • We blame the devil for deceiving us.
  • We even add influences like genetics and environment (“Genetics made me do it!”) to our arsenal of excuses.

While these may play a part in influencing us, the final decision to sin lies squarely on our shoulders.

In spite of the devil’s temptation and another’s influence, God held Adam and Eve responsible for their own sins.

Blame, Shame, and God’s Solution

Blame is rooted in shame. We feel shame at our sin and grab a pile of fig leaves to cover us. The solution didn’t work.

But God’s solution to their sin and shame came only by God eliciting a confession from the sinners: “I ate.” The Lord then provided a sacrificial death on their behalf, atoning for their sin, removing their shame (Genesis 3:21).

Nothing has changed.

God’s plan for removing our guilt and shame involves removing the sin that caused it. (Tweet that.)

Fig leaves won’t cover our shame.

In other words, when we recognize our sin and receive God’s provision through the finished work of Jesus Christ on the cross, we have the forgiveness we craved when we shifted blame to somebody else.

With no sin, there’s no need to feel shame.

And no need to blame.

Question: Why do you think God holds us responsible when others clearly influenced us?

Adapted from Wayne Stiles, “The Devil Made Me Do It?” Insights (July 2005): 1-2. Copyright © 2005 by Insight for Living. All rights reserved

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2 Responses to Blame Shifting our Blunders

  1. ptl2010 says:

    No need to blame for Jesus for Jesus bore our greatest shame.

  2. Excuses, excuses! Our first reaction is to make excuses (the first sin of pride) but when we agree with God about our sin, and confess and repent, we are F-R-E-E from guilt and free from all the results of that sin. Our peace and joy are restored.

    >> “Why do you think God holds us responsible when others clearly influenced us?”
    While we are in the world, we WILL constantly face temptations. We struggle against the powers of this world . . . BUT God has supplied EVERYTHING we need to live victoriously. There is no excuse for sin. We are promised that when we submit to Goid and resist the devil, the devil must flee. He is a defeated foe. If I fail to use what God has provided, it is *MY* fault – no one else’s!

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