HE LIFTS US UP: A Call Out to the Abusers!

This statistic was given to me and I want to share with all of you…

70% OF ABUSIVE MEN COME FROM VIOLENT HOMES!!!

The cycle of abuse has to be broken for the sake of our future generations. We all need to evaluate our own hearts, scanning every part to realize how we actually treat people. Do we yell and scream and lash out verbally?  Do we act out in anger? Do we react with threats and  violence? Do we want our own children to be abused or violent abusers? Think about it!! The cycle of abuse has to be broken!!!! We need to treat people the way that we would want to be treated!

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This is a different message…
A CALL OUT TO THE ABUSERS!!
Though you may deny the problem,
you are bullies and users.
How can you claim to love someone,
and vow with a wedding band?
then yell, scream and shout…
now, this I don’t understand!

How can you say you love her,
and hit her with your hand?
Getting angry over little things…
and declaring that you re the man!
How can you hit your small child,
who should be cherished so grand?
For a child is a gift from God…
this abuse, I don’t understand!

How can you molest a child,
with playgrounds you will scan?
Totally stealing their innocence,
like marking them like a brand!
How can you molest your own child,
who should be protected by your hand.
not victims of rape and incest…
again, I just don’t understand!

How can you abuse your wife
and pretend to be a loving man?
Acting gentle and kind in public,
but at home, abusive reprimands!
How can you attack any woman,
with sex you will demand…
a woman has a right to say NO!
It’s rape and I just don’t understand.

Verbal, emotional, physical, sexual…
all abuses whether or not planned!
Treating others with resentment and anger,
It’s problem all across this land.
How can a boss abuse a worker,
with destructive schemes planned,
It’s workplace and financial abuse,
again, I just don’t understand.

How can you blame your victims,
leaving them bruised and stranded.
Denying you have any problems,
your innocence you’ve commanded.
Then how can you harass your victim,
with a Protective Order in hand?
Pretending laws don’t apply to you…
  all this, I don’t understand.

ABUSERS, I pray that you heed this call,
and your own heart you will scan.
For God loves all His children,
and He wants healing across this land.
Treating others, the way we want to be treated!!!
The Golden Rule still stands!!
Treating all with kindness and respect,
now this is I understand.

Healing and redemption is available…
  for all of us you see.
For God sent His Only Son,
and He is the Key!
Jesus Christ heals and redeems,
and can set us all free.
No more anger, guilt, or shame…
like a new identity.

So please heed this call…
and turn to Christ today.
Ask Him into your heart…
and there He will forever stay.
He will change your life…
for He makes all things new.
So ask Him into your heart…
and just see what He will do.

The Golden Rule (Matthew 7:12) says,  “Do to others whatever you would like them to do to you.”

I Corinthians 13:4-8a,13 says,  “Love is patient, love is kind, and is not jealous; love does not brag and is not arrogant, does not act unbecomingly; it does not seek its own, is not provoked, does not take into account a wrong suffered, does not rejoice in unrighteousness, but rejoices with the truth.  Love bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things, endures all things.  Love never fails. Now abide faith, hope and love, these three; but the greatest of these is love.”

Dear Lord, I pray that all your people will be healed and delivered of their pasts, victims as well as the abusers who were once victims. I pray that this cycle of abuse be broken now in Jesus’ name and that our next generation will be free of this devastation that is affecting our families and people around the world. Turn hearts to You Lord and set us all free from bondage. Help us to be “Christ-like” in love and to treat each other as You have taught us as we follow Your lead… Lord, we declare that the cycle of abuse be broken and the captives set free…    in Jesus’ name. Amen

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17 Responses to HE LIFTS US UP: A Call Out to the Abusers!

  1. Suzanne says:

    Reblogged this on Tears of Truth…. and commented:
    This is what I think …these words could be my own …but someone else wrote them; although I’ve been through it….-as for me in my life , there seems to be no end to it. I’m lucky to have finally found a loving, non-abusive spouse for these past 17 years. But the family, they never stop with the never ending cruelness, insults, ongoing abuse and never ending alienation from anyone that might love me…I re logged this authors post because it hit a nerve with me in my life!!!

  2. Thank you. Those numbers are sad. You are right, we must stop the cycle. The generational curse stops with me. Meghan

    • secretangel says:

      Amen Meghan. We have to stop the cycle. We have to pray and break that generational curse off of our future generations. I pray that more people will realize how important this is to their future generations… Many blessings to you, my sister…

  3. I love this, as one who is still healing from abuse, I appreciate this. I was abused physically, and emotionally at home by my mother, I was sexually abused by a family friend. And in college had by boyfriend at the time rape me, and physically abuse me. I am now 55 years old. I am in a loving marriage, with a man who respects me and loves me. We are partners in life. Through all of it God has been there, protecting me. He was the one who lead me to my husband. Thank you for this. People who have been abused needs to know, things can turn around. God is an awesome God! God Bless you and keep you safe.

    • secretangel says:

      Thank you so much for your encouraging comments. I patiently wait for the Lord to bring my next husband… a partner in life who will love and respect me. Yes, so many of us who have been abused and broken need time to heal and wait on God to bring who He plans for us. I praise God for blessing you and pray for many more blessings for you and your husband. We definitely do serve an awesome God. Many blessings to you, my friend.

      • Thank you Many Blessings To You Also! We do serve an awesome God! I do believe there is someone for everybody, be comforted knowing that, that someone will also hold your beliefs, God will bring him to you. It took me and my husband a long time to find each other. He was born and lived in Virginia, I was born and lived in Massachusetts, yet in 1986 at 28 years old, through strange, yet amazing circumstances I moved to Virginia. Yet, we did not find each other until 2002. We crossed paths a lot but did not know it until recently. Again strange, yet amazing things accord that brought us together! It is just so amazing to think about how God can just work everything out!

      • secretangel says:

        Amen.. I am so happy for you and many others who have come full circle from abuse to healing to loving relationships. God has a plan and is always in control. The earth is His playground and He we are the “game pieces”. I believe that as we wait on Him, He will orchestrate our lives where He wants them to meet who He wants…. All in God’s timing… I appreciate your encouragement..Many blessings to you, my sister!!!

  4. Reblogged this on Ace News Services 2014 and commented:
    #AceNewsServices2014 says ” Love your Neighbour as you Love yourself” the problem is that `First You Have to Put Love into Their Heart’ only by application of `Caring and Sharing’ do we learn the `Way of God’ #Amen

  5. loopyloo305 says:

    Amen and amen! God bless you Angel!

  6. Great msg…A big Amen to that!!!Hallelujah! !!
    Thanks …Neeky

  7. ptl2010 says:

    There is help for abusers – Jesus Christ who loves you is waiting for you to call to Him as you realize you cannot get out of the weakness of your flesh on your own.

    He wants to forgive you as you repent, and heal your hurts and empower you to do what is right and good for you to do – to love yourself, family and those whom you abuse.

    ‘Call to Me and I will answer you, and I will tell you great and mighty things, which you do not know.’ Jeremiah 33:3

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